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The Verb Song (without the music)

Be born.
Learn to crawl.
Learn to walk.
Break stuff.
Get screamed at.
Cry, because you’ve been screamed at.
Cry, because you feel like it.
Cry, just to get a hug.
Smile, when you get that hug.
Grow up.
Or not.
Learn to run.
Fall down.
Learn to fall down.
Learn to get back up.
Ride a tricycle.
Break a tricycle.
Get a bike.
Learn to ride a bike.
Scrape your knees.
See the scars heal.
Trample a few weeds.
Ride over grass.
Race your buddies.
Win some races.
Lose the others.
Celebrate the races.
Won or lost, doesn’t matter.
Drink some cola.
Feel the fizz in your nose.
Then, drink some more cola.
Outgrow the bike.
See it gather rust.
Feel the twinge seeing it gather rust.
Feel the twinge when it’s thrown out.
Or when it’s kept in the gloomy garage.
Let go of the twinge, and move on.
Eat ice cream with your friends.
Get a brain-freeze.
Eat more ice cream with your friends.
Get another brain-freeze.
Grow into the teen years.
Get your first zit.
And your first crush.
Worry about how you look.
Worry about carbs.
But sometimes, binge anyway.
Get your heart broken.
Mend your broken heart.
Learn about the world.
Learn about yourself.
Believe you can change the world.
Waste a lot of hours playing video games.
Stay up nights to study for tests.
Fall asleep half way through the test.
Get bored half way through the test.
Leave the test hall early, just to get rid of it.
Go to college.
Choose a degree.
Study something you want to.
Or something that you got through at.
Either way, it doesn’t matter.
Your whole life is still ahead of you.
Take an interest in Art.
Make an effort to understand expression.
Make more friends.
Learn to drive.
Bang your car.
Worry about it at that time.
Laugh about it later.
Get a girlfriend… or a boyfriend.
Fall in love, slowly.
Fall out of love, suddenly.
Break up, be lonely.
Then, fall in love again.
Know about Politics.
Pretend to know about Politics.
Read more than you ever have.
Write more than you ever have.
Think more than you ever have.
You won’t get another chance sometime soon.
Have a booze party.
Drink till you throw up.
Throw up till you’re empty.
Drink till you pass out.
Graduate.
Throw the cap as high as you can.
Then walk away as far away as you have to. 
Get a job.
Go to the job every day.
Get bored of the routine life.
Change jobs every few years.
Grow some roots.
Stay where you are.
Grow a pair of wings.
Try to fly away from it all.
Get a pet.
Take care of it.
Feed it.
Play with friendly cats.
Play with friendly dogs.
Take long walks on the beach.
Go for long hikes on mountains.
Holiday with friends.
Take a break with your family.
Get away, sometimes, just on your own.
Ride the bus.
Ride the train.
Play with children.
Play with your friends.
Bug your buddies.
Tell them to fuck off when they bug you.
Do it in a friendly way, though.
Find your soul mate.
Get married.
Make beautiful children.
Make a wonderful, loving home.
Watch your kids grow up.
Invite your childhood friends for Friday Night Dinners.
Watch them age with you.
Watch your kids make friends with theirs.
Watch sports on weekends.
Watch movies with your spouse, once the kids are asleep.
Go to the school when your kid gets in trouble.
Be proud of what he’s done, on the inside.
Watch him grow up.
Watch yourself grow old.
Enjoy watching the years fly by.
Smile at your receding hairline.
Laugh at your bald head.
Retire, and rest up.
Get lost in the memories.
Say Goodbye with a smile.
But, only when you want to.
This one’s inspired by “It’s Kind Of A Funny Story” (the film) by Anna Boden and Ryan Fleck. Haven’t got the book yet, but I somehow want to read it after watching the film.
This isn’t in any specific order. Feel free to jumble it up, or to throw out a few lines altogether.

A Change of Heart

The death of Mrs. Shyama Chaudhuri had left her husband deeply troubled. Mr. Ranjan Chaudhuri, at 87 years of age, was left all alone in the world. Ranjan Chaudhuri’s best friend at the time of his wife’s death was a man 28 years younger than him. Biplob was 59, on the verge of retirement. “Ready to officially enter the world of the old folks,” he always joked. Ranjan could identify with the humor of that statement so well, that it brought a snicker to his eyes. Every time he heard the joke.

It was Biplob who had introduced Mr. and Mrs. Chaudhuri to the world of computers. Ranjan never knew that he could grasp computers so well, even at that age. Soon after he got his new computer, Ranjan spent hours together playing games with his grandson Tukai. Shyama, however, had been hooked on to social networking sites.

Shyama’s heart attack struck her in the middle of the night, while the elderly couple was sleeping peacefully. Ranjan had known something like this was about to happen, but hadn’t expected the incident to come about so suddenly, silently. The next morning was one of the toughest to deal with for Ranjan. He hardly remembered making the call to Biplob about what had happened during the night. Biplob and his wife had come over, and taken charge of the whole situation for Ranjan.

A few hours later, while leaving the cremation grounds, the reality of the events hit Ranjan. Biplob and Ranjan were walking back to the parking lot, when Ranjan’s footsteps slowed down a miniscule bit. Biplob noticed, but didn’t want to ask anything; couldn’t ask, actually. Ranjan however, spoke up.

“She took another quiz on Facebook last night. Something about what we were in our previous life. The result came out as lovers,” Ranjan smiled a sad smile, “and it confirmed what she always told me for the last 62 years. We’ll still be together in our next life.”

Biplob smiled too, but somehow, he felt that his smile was intruding on something private and pure and guarded between Ranjan and Shyama Chaudhuri. He bowed his head, and walked to the car. It was the first time that they drove together in silence.

*****

Ranjan and Shyama had gotten married when they were both in their 20’s, deeply in love. They were childhood friends, and it was an obvious choice to be made. They were the best of friends, and all through their school days, when Ranjan used to be away, they used to write 40 page letters to each other. Once school was over for Ranjan, and he came back home, it was only a matter of time before the two of them got married.

As Ranjan and Biplob were walking back home after the drive, Ranjan remembered the wonderful life that he had had, all because of the woman who passed away a night ago, lying right next to him. A best friend, a wife, the mother of his children, the strongest woman of his whole family, and she had been lost in just a matter of hours. Just a few hours ago, Ranjan remembered, they were sitting on the edge of the bed having a silly discussion about ice skating. How he missed her…

Biplob left him alone with his thoughts, and went outside to talk to the many relatives who had come over to mourn for Shyama, and Ranjan’s loss.

*****

Ranjan couldn’t get the memories of his wife out of his mind. The constant longing to see Shyama one more time drove him inward, away from the rest of the world. He hardly got out of his room, except for the long walks that he took every day in solitude. The walks became longer and longer as the days went by; whole weeks would soon pass by without him interacting with the rest of his family. Many a times, Ranjan’s son would find Tukai waiting patiently for his gaming partner to accompany him on another mission, but Ranjan wouldn’t be there for Tukai. He kept wondering what had happened to his grandfather, but he somehow got no real answers to all his questions.

Ranjan found a new hobby instead; in place of running to the virtual world, he now escaped into books. Religion, philosophy, history… Ranjan devoured all. He would read into the wee hours of the night, and wake up at the earliest possible hour to run to the library. During his walks, a small notebook would accompany him, and he could be spotted scribbling something in it during the early morning hours. Sitting on a lonely wooden bench in the middle of an overgrown, wild park, he would finally feel content with… something…

****

In reality, Ranjan never forgot how much he missed Shyama. He also didn’t forget the promise that she had made to him before she passed on – that she would be his again, in the next life. Ranjan’s inward drive had brought him to a startling decision; he would end his life, so that once more, he could be with his beloved. In reality, he was trying to search for the justifications of such an act; for he knew that it was a heinous crime to take any life, including your own. In reality, he was looking for a means to escape his life, that he could explain when justice posed the questions – in this life or the next.

So obsessed had he become with that quest, that everything else seemed irrelevant to him. He read scriptures, all of which condemned such an act. He read books on philosophy, which talked about the reasons why a person would commit suicide. Still, his answers, his justifications, they eluded him. He had given up hope of ever finding a solution, and the best that he could come up with was the simple line that his heart always said to him – “I love her, and I miss her.” Nothing else seemed to be important anymore. And so, he went down to the chemist shop and got the seven strips of sleeping pills.

*****

It was just by chance that Biplob was also present in the chemist shop when Ranjan purchased the pills. He didn’t need to see the notebook or the list of books that Ranjan had been reading, to get to know just what was happening. The slight tremble of Ranjan’s hands, as he picked up the small brown pack, was enough for his best friend to know what was happening. A few steps out of the shop, Biplob caught up with Ranjan.

“Hi, Ranjan,” whispered Biplob, right behind him. Ranjan jumped, as he hadn’t expected anyone to be around him.

“What are you doing here?” Ranjan asked, suddenly very defensive.

“You know why I’m here, Ranjan. You know what I’m going to ask from you. You know I’m here to take away that little brown paper pack from you. You know I’m going to throw away the paper packet. You know me well already, Ranjan, enough for me not to have to tell you why I’m here.”

Ranjan didn’t know what to say. He hadn’t expected this, it wasn’t anywhere in the plans. Even as he heard everything Biplob was saying, one part of him wanted to clutch the little packet and run.

“You don’t get it. I miss her, so much…” Ranjan’s eyes watered up for the first time, as he said these words to someone besides himself.

“I know that. I know just how much you love her, and I know how much you miss her. Still, believe me; you don’t want to do this.”

“What do you mean? You think I’m a coward, that I’d stop myself at this stage?”

“No, Ranjan. All I mean is, you aren’t ready yet,” said Biplob, and the little brown paper bag was gently removed from Ranjan’s hands.

“Come, I’ll walk you home. It’ll be fun – two old folks, walking down the road!”

The smile wasn’t really there on Ranjan’s lips, but his eyes gleamed, as though they were smiling at an old joke that he’d heard a long time back.

*****

Two days later, Biplob came to see Ranjan at home. There was an odd gleam in the old and tired eyes, as though they had found some new energy. Biplob was happy to see his old friend this way.

“Tukai’s waiting for you. He got a new game, for you. That, I think, you’re ready for,” said Biplob.

“I might be. Still, there is a lot more that needs to be done; both for me, and for Tukai. A few things that are much more important than video games or social networking sites or virtual worlds.”

“Like what?” asked Biplob.

Ranjan laced his old boots together, picked up his wooden walking stick, and said, “Like building a few memories, for both of us.”

Silhouette

Maria was happy, as she went down the road. Hopping and skipping, she went over all the new words she had learnt in school that day. Premonition. Rendezvous. And, her personal favorite. Silhouette.
The word had a dreamy feel to it, like a poem for the eyes. Maria was anxious to catch a glimpse of a silhouette in real life, but it’s not easy to catch one in broad daylight, during her school hours. She had raised her hand up to the sun, and although her hand made something of a silhouette, Maria hadn’t been quite satisfied with the effect.
Iqbal’s pastry shop, on the way back home, was open at the time. The tiny shop looked like a birthday cake with lots of candles on it, the lights enhanced greatly by the setting sun. Somehow, she felt the urge for a sweet. Going to the counter, she was greeted by the tempting smell of baking cakes, and the wonderful colors of toffees. She chose an orange toffee, and was soon sucking on it happily as she went back home.
The front door was open, like it always had been. Her mother had been quite careless, right around the time that her father died. Lately, however, she’d become even more careless. Ever since she got a new boyfriend, the guy who would come in a black fast car and whisk her mother away every night.
“Maria, honey, is that you? Gosh, darling, you’re late today,” a voice called from the bedroom as Maria entered. The house seemed to be in disarray, and Maria knew the moment she entered that the cleaning lady hadn’t come. Her mother hadn’t bothered to clean up either, and Maria knew she had to do it.
“Yes, Ma. It’s me. I’m sorry it took me long to reach, I stopped at Iqbal’s for a sweet. I got you one too, do you want it?”
“Oh, sweetheart, I don’t have sweets anymore. Too many carbs, it can’t be too good for me, can it?” called back her mother’s voice, moving from the bedroom to the bathroom.
Maria walked slowly to her little brother’s room. She could hear her mother taking a shower, and somehow knew that she would be going out tonight. It would be Maria and her little brother all alone; but the little tiddler didn’t seem to mind all that much. He gave a big grin and a bigger “agoogoo” on seeing Maria, and she smiled back.
“Maria, I’m ready. Steve’s here, I’m leaving now. I’ll be back late, so don’t stay up for me honey. Take care of Junior for me. Dinner’s ready, you just need to warm it up. Goodnight, honey.”
Maria rushed to the door of Junior’s room, and could see the main door open. Steve’s car was standing right outside, and the lights were shining inside the house. She caught a glimpse of her mother as she left – a silhouette, against the car lights.
“Goodnight, Ma,” said Maria in a tiny voice. The car lights moved away, and she slowly closed the door for the night.

The Right Words At The Right Time

It was a dark stormy night.

Well, actually, it wasn’t really so. Yet, metaphorically speaking, the dark storm was raging on inside me.

It’s strange how too much of information has the ability to cripple you mentally. It’s the closest I’d felt to a zombie. I didn’t like it.

I think it all happened with that broken stair at home. The same one that my mother had fallen down twice. It killed her the second time, instantly. That’s what the doctors told us later.

It had started out as quite a normal day. Let me make it a little better. Imagine the perfect family scene, if you will. Father, son and daughter sitting at the dining table enjoying a nice breakfast of toast and corn flakes.

Father (to son): You’re done with the paper there kid?

Son (to father): Here’s the business section for you, Pa. I’m reading the sports bit. Wait a bit, read that in the meantime.

The young daughter, in the meantime, is playing with her toast, and waiting for Mummy to come downstairs. She seems to need her mother’s help in having her breakfast.

Daughter (to father): Pa, what’s taking Mummy so long?

Father: She’ll be down real soon, honey. (to son) Why don’t you go check on her, see how much time she’d actually take.

Son (walking to the foot of the staircase and bellowing to his mother on the upper floor): Ma, breakfast’s getting cold! Come down, we’re waiting for you!

Mummy (shouting from the first floor): Coming, sweetheart.

The conversation ends there. For, as Mummy was coming down from the staircase, her foot caught in the crack on one of the stairs.

She fell.

***

“Forasmuch as it hath pleased Almighty God of his great mercy unto himself the soul of our dearest sister, daughter, and mother, here departed; we therefore commit her body to the ground, earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust, in sure and certain hope of resurrection to eternal life, through our Lord Jesus Christ, who shall change our vile body that it may be like to his glorious body, according to the mighty working, whereby he is able to subdue all things himself.”

The priest finished. The earth was thrown back into the dark grave with the dark coffin that held the body of our Mummy.

I had wanted to dig the grave for her myself, but I wasn’t allowed to do that. I had to make do with writing everything that the priest had said at the funeral by hand. My little tribute.

***

I knew I had to go into my parent’s room the moment we got back. It got the chills running down my spine, like a many legged creature running back and forth on my backbone. I remember standing a full minute in front of the door to their room, steeling myself to go in. Second by second, the minute was up, and I had to go in.

The room looked different, somehow. It’s been a day since she’d entered here. It knew, somehow, that one of the persons who used to live in that room wouldn’t come back again. The room knew.

The closet, the place I was most afraid of looking through the most. You see, I was close to my mother the way a son is supposed to be, but still, most of her life had been a mystery to me. Until now. I knew that the moment I opened that closet, at least some of those mysteries would come out.

This time, I didn’t want to wait the way I did outside the door. There was no real point in delaying this, I’d learnt it from experience. I went to the closet, and opened the door. Her clothes, her bags, her scent – it was all there.

So was her diary.

As I held that little black book in my hand, I realized that in here was all that there was to know of my mother. In that little black book were parts of her life that I’d never known. Curiosity got the better of me, and I opened the diary.

It was blank, all except for two things. A few torn pages at the start of the diary, and a quote: “It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.”

I began the hunt for the missing pages.

***

Two hours later, after looking through almost the entire room for the missing pages, I finally found them, hidden in one of her old shoes. I unfolded the pages, and read the entries.

The first date on the diary was about 18 years ago.

Dear Diary,

John’s in a bad mood right now, all because I told him to get the stair fixed. I don’t know how the stair got broken… just because I stay at home all the time doesn’t mean that I would know all about what goes on in the house all the time! I mean, it just isn’t fair, is it?

I know I shouldn’t cry. I know this is something very silly to be so upset about. Still, I sometimes wish that John would be a little more understanding. It’s as if he doesn’t realize that I know how hard he’s working.

I better go, I shouldn’t let John catch me like this. It’s been a while since I’ve acted like a silly schoolgirl, and I feel stupid about it already. I know John loves me, I know we’ll work this fight out. I love him too, after all.”

Dear Diary,

It’s been a while now, and the stair still hasn’t been fixed. I don’t know what’s up with John lately, he keeps forgetting that I’ve told him to get that stair fixed so many times. I just don’t know what to do with him. I almost fell down today when I stumbled. Good thing Marco was there to catch me as I fell.

I wonder when I’ll be able to tell John how important it is to get that stair fixed. He doesn’t seem to understand, especially now that Marco’s around. Sure, they’re best buddies and all, but does that really mean you’ll forget your wife, your house, everything?”

Dear Diary,

The stair still hasn’t been fixed, and John and I fought again over it. I know it seems silly to fight over something as insignificant as a stair, but… really, sometimes John can get me all riled up. It’s just so -

Had to go away for a bit there. Marco came up to say goodnight, see if I’m fine. John’s out on the porch with his whisky and his cigar, while his wife waits patiently for him to come back.

I don’t know if John sent Marco up or not, but all he did was tell me what an awesome guy John is. Yeah, as if I couldn’t see that myself. But Marco was all about how cool John used to be as a kid, and how much fun those two used to have. He kept on and on about giving John another chance, that he was actually sorry about what happened. He even said he’ll talk to John, see if that’ll get him to fix up the stair.

I don’t even know why I’m listening to Marco so much. I mean, I don’t really know that guy all that well…”

Dear Diary,

It’s been a week since Marco’s been around, and I don’t think I’ve been this happy. Not since I married John, at least. I know it doesn’t sound right, but I like Marco. As a friend of course, which is just fine. He’s like one of the best friends I’ve had my whole life, and I can feel that he really understands me too.

Things have been a lot smoother with John as well, all thanks to Marco. I told you, he’s an amazing guy!”

Dear Diary,

I think I’m falling in love with Marco. Call me crazy, but I think he knows about it. Call me crazier, but I think he’s falling in love with me too.

Someone’s here. I gotta go.”

Dear Diary,

I’m a horrible woman. I wish I could just erase the last two hours of my life. I’m a bad person, really bad. I’m married, to John! Marco’s best friend!

How could I let this happen? With Marco? I’m a horrible woman – “

Dear Diary,

Marco left today, because of me. I’m pregnant, with his child. I don’t know what to do, I don’t know what to say. I know John would be happy, he won’t suspect anything.

It’ll just be me, who is going to have to live with that terrible secret, all my life.”

I was numb till the time I reached here. There was one last entry, but this one was folded into half. Just like that, half of my mind wanted to open that last sheet of paper, while the other half just wanted to let it be. With shaking hands, I opened the piece of paper.

 

It’s been nine months since Marco left us and disappeared. Even John doesn’t know where he is. It’s been so long since we’ve heard from him.

He probably doesn’t know why I want to meet him so badly right now. My son was born today, and his eyes are just like Marco’s. The rest of him, thankfully, is all me. I don’t think John noticed it.

I wanted to name him Marco, or something similar. Like Marcus. Only, I couldn’t.

We named him Matthew. Maybe, someday, he will be able to forgive me for what I have done.

The stair still hasn’t been fixed. I’ve stopped telling John to get it fixed. Still, it’s not fair on my part to put the blame of my sins to the broken staircase.”

The small piece of paper slipped from my hands, and fluttered to the floor. I made no attempt to catch it. There was no real point to it anymore.

***

I had to get out of the stifling house. The same house that had seen it all happen. Who was I? Where did I come from, really? The man I called my father all these years, who was he? Where was my real father? I felt lost and confused. I had no idea who I was, much less where I was going.

I walked right into a smelly, drunk man.

“Watch where you’re going, you blind bastard!” he slurred, as he stumbled on the road.

I don’t think he had any idea how close to the truth he was. My truth, my real identity.

A Brand New Family

A little over a year into her marriage, and Rupal had exceeded all her expectations towards herself – she had actually become a wonderful cook. The Pulao and the Shahi Paneer were giving out the most mouth watering aroma, and she should have been proud of herself.
Only, she wasn’t. It’s not easy to be proud of yourself, when you’re all alone at home, waiting for a husband who’s late. It was the third successive night that she’d been waiting for Himanshu to turn up, but he said he was held up at work for yet another day. She knew it was for the best, and yet she didn’t like it one bit. The fact that all her efforts at making the exquisite dinner were slowly turning cold was something she didn’t want to come to terms with so easily.
She heard the key turning in the lock. A moment later, Himanshu’s voice boomed in from the corridor, “Honey, I’m home!”
“You’re late again! Why do they have to make you work so hard?” she asked him the moment he came within her line of sight. Her arms were crossed over her tummy, always a bad sign.
“Sweetheart, I told you on the phone. You know the VP, if he wants a meeting, he wants it now! I’m sorry it took so much time,” said Himanshu.
Rupal wasn’t impressed by what she was hearing. Something inside her was not ready to accept the things that Himanshu was saying to her at that moment.
“Is it too much to ask for a husband to be back home at a decent hour, so that we can have a proper meal together at the end of the day? You know how hectic my days are, and you know how much I look forward to the dinners that we share.”
“I know honey, but this was something  I couldn’t avoid. I’m sure you understand…”
“Oh sure! You would always expect me to be the one who’s understanding, right? As if it’s never going to be your job to try to understand what I want, ever!”
Two fat droplets of tears formed at the edge of her eyelids, and she couldn’t stop them from rolling down her cheeks. Himanshu, noticing this, rushed forward and held her tightly in her arms.
“What is it sweetie? What do you want? You know all you have to do is tell me, and I’ll do anything to make sure that you have it.”
He could feel her heart beating against his, could feel her wonderful warmth in his arms. And then she looked up at him, and said, “I just want the three of us to be together, and happy, and to love each other, forever.”
“The three of us?” asked Himanshu, noticing her smile mingled with the two fat tears rolling down her cheeks for the first time.
***
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